Mister Discreet789

About Me:

Hi, I’m 57 and work in a professional environment.

Yes, I am married, and the marriage is generally good, with one exception. Like many of the people on here I suspect, the intimacy has been missing for years, and being tactile, I miss not just the sex, but also the general intimacy. Whilst I have no intention of leaving my family, I do want to experience that intimacy again, and know how to be very discreet.

Hence my being here seeking a very discreet affair with one special lady, where we not only enjoy mutually very satisfying time in bed, but also spend time together, drinks, meals etc and stay in regular contact between meets so those secret messages bring a smile to our lips upon reading them. In other words, for the want of a better expression, a good old-fashioned affair with a like-minded lady who may also be married and in a similar situation, or single, but happy to just enjoy fun in the company of a married man.

I have no intention of causing disruption to anyone’s home life, and would like the same courtesy, and therefore absolute discretion will be afforded and expected in return.

As regards my personality I am very easy going, intelligent, articulate, affectionate, confident (without being arrogant), honest (yes I appreciate the irony of that, but I mean within the context of an affair), flirtatious, passionate, open-minded, and I do like to take the lead in the bedroom, though that does not mean I am selfish, quite the opposite, my lover’s pleasure is my prime focus in bed before my own.

Appearance wise I’m about 5’ 8”, average build and I keep myself in reasonable shape. I still have a full head of hair, though its mainly grey now thanks to the stresses of life, and have been told that I am attractive, though of course, physical attraction is a very personal thing and every individuals perception is different.

I run my own business which has several advantages when having an affair. It means I control my diary and can therefore be flexible and meet either daytimes, or evenings to suit. I travel on business quite regularly, especially to London, which means I am not restricted to someone locally and means I can get nights away.

If you like the sound of me then please send me a message so we can chat to see if we hit it off.

Ideal Partner:

Female up to the age of around 60. I have no specific preference for younger women, but similarly, I am not averse to a younger lover either, as it’s all about the connection, not age.

I am not attracted to a specific type of woman, hair, size etc, because for me attraction is not dependent upon looks alone, the personality is far more important so we can enjoy engaging conversations, not just amazing times in bed, though of course, there has to be mutual physical attraction in the first place.

I would say that generally I prefer ladies with curves, and if I’m honest, ladies that are more feminine in how they dress, but that’s a preference not a pre-requisite and there are always exceptions to every rule.

It’s fair to say I’m looking for more than just looks, I’m looking for someone whose personality mirrors mine, is intelligent, has a good sense of humour, doesn’t take life too seriously and has a desire to forge a close physical relationship that’s currently missing from their lives, but one that is restricted to our own secret parallel world so it enhances our lives, not jeopardises them. Perhaps I am being too ambitious here, but then I have always been an optimist.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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