JBJSinclaire

About Me:

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I'm average size, not athletic, although I do two dance classes a week, I have a nice figure although I'm not a supermodel or anything, hazel eyes, and brown hair. My friends say I look very young for my age.

I've got pretty simple tastes, and I find Back to the Future and Strictly Come Dancing agree with me a lot more than EastEnders. It's grim. And the wall paper is terrible. Are are Pauline and Shell still in it?

From the academic side of things, I'm university educated, I work part time in education, I'm married and looking for something that goes wherever it leads me. Hopefully to Speedy Boarding weekends 😊 and Back to the Future on the London stage, when it comes out, with that special someone.

My friends describe me as imaginative, independent and friendly. I'm looking for someone to make the next few years adventurous, lively, fun, inspiring and woo hoo! definitely to obtain a real life sex life, can't say better than that ⛅ without involving my family life.

And I'm having fun looking on 😍!

But not on whatsapp or flickchat or whatever. I prefer to have all my ducks in a row on IE 🦆 it's far more convenient, and I like the security.

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Ideal Partner:

I am looking to begin with to meet in confidence for coffee or a glass of wine.

I am really happy with my life but am looking for someone for romance, cheerfulness, fun and the feeling of wide open horizons. Someone who can offer me kindness, empathy and good manners, and doesn't just expect to be on the receiving end of them, as I have a positive outlook on life, so I'm not looking for anyone "woe is me, " I prefer a sunny disposition, a glass half full type person.

I'm definitely not looking for anyone who has been in a long sexless, affectionless relationship and is desperate, as I would feel bad if after, say, five or six dates say, they were looking forward to getting their rocks off and scored a duck. I'm also not looking for anyone who maxes out on porn, not especially because it prevents them from rising to the occasion, just because it's quite grim, lonely and antisocial, and their personality gets lost, because porn is just about women "servicing" men, which hasn't been the situation in real life for over a hundred years. This would kill the romance for me, definitely. However I am definitely looking for a sexual relationship. Sorry for being stuck in the 1980s fellas!

I was reading Cosmo when the new man was new. "I do what I like in bed, and if you don't like it there is something wrong with you" was history then as it is barely remembered now. Just a kangaroo hop to "Brace yourself, Sheila!" however I wouldn't judge any fellow on their performance, as wouldn't like to be judged myself, and that sort of actitude is just ick, basically.

Ultimately, I guess, I am looking for love, a temporary sort of love, that doesn't have to be serious, doesn't have to last, although it might do, and can fade into the sunset if things come to a natural end, although love is not essential to me.

I'm definitely looking for empathy, for kindness, and for a sexual relationship (but not a one night stand, I'm very fussy about who I sleep with, and you should be too. ) I think the best part about having an affair is that there are so many things not to get stressed about, who forgot to update the life insurance, which new furniture to buy, etc. The choice between a meetup London or Edinburgh, it all seems much more fun 😊

Anyone whose other half would be completely heartbroken need not apply 😢 I don't think mine would!

I enjoy travel, the theatre, Butlins and boho places like Brighton or Camden or Tower Bridge, and the beach. I'm not planning on changing my domestic situation. I do struggle somewhat with the morals of being on this site (less and less as time goes on) but I do think if someone is in situation where they are not entirely happy, they have a duty to themselves to do the best for everyone in their family, but also to put themselves first, and this can only be done via secret liasons, then so be it 😊


I'm getting lots of lovely messages on here, thanks guys, but after a week or two of messaging, if we have not met up, then I'm happy to meet you, friend,
but will be concentrating on potential candidates for an actual affair, as life is all about adventure to me. I obviously would not want to take any risks with my personal safety, so we would meet in a busy place etc, someone would know where I was going etc, I'm not the most confident person in the world but I would give it shot, and if not there always the toilet window escape route 😂

Cheers for all the messages fellas, I have absolutely loved getting them! I find the humour brilliant although find the references to hair stoking, sensuous, dribbling, multiple orgasm providing foot rubs ewwwwww! from someone I never met so far, although "fully functional" really is an asset and one I certainly treasure in my current situation, and now post menopause I want it to describe me too 🐫 🏜 X

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Pop / R&B, Shopping, Dancing, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema

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