Vanessaseeks

About Me:

Bright, bubbly and adventure seeking lady who sets high standards and needs a partner in crime who seeks similar high expectations. The pandemic severely cramped my style with hubby at home much more than I would like, and me not travelling anymore. So I am seeking eligible bachelors (as long as you don't live with Mummy!) married men are preferred but who have access to a warm private bed. I don't do car sex anymore, I don't want to be disturbed or have an audience and I would hope to see him weekly if we can. I am low maintenance, I don't seek dinner, gifts, wining and such like but I do expect to be your only other liaison.

I find VK and gifts rather strange, just why would you? Talk to me and if I like what you say and like the sound of you I will talk back. I do get a lot of mail, if I think that it is a cut and paste job or something bland like 'hi how are you' you will not get a response, I just don't have time. I have energy and seek energetic men, if you don't come across that way I am sorry but there is little I can do for you. I expect you to be educated but that could come from education or life, what I mean is worldly wise with something to say.

I would want to move quickly, email first, then I use Wickr (as it is private) Whats App no longer is and I have stopped using it. No prolonged ping pong, if we get on let's get it on. I am a little naughty, adventurous, butter wouldnt melt in public but sizzles in private....oh and I am willing to experiment.

Ideal Partner:

I seek a kind and tactile man who is in a similar position to me, I must be special to him and in that I mean apart from being married he is only in one elicit relationship. I would like him to be 5'10 or above and while hair is negotiable a beer belly is not. I am slim and I like slim men ( but in this all rugby players except the fat ones at the front are my type).


I want to please my man and expect him to want to please me, that is not with gifts, I have everything I need and would not want to have to explain something new, but a man who will give time to make this work; initially we might have to see each other frequently, perhaps every week but settle to perhaps 2 or 3 meetings a month.


I want to laugh, cry sometimes, feel secure, wanted and cherished and I love to make love, sometimes I love sex and I need you to know the difference. I want to feel tingles of anticipation and hope I evoke the same in him.

Other Interests:

Cycling, Dancing, Food and Wine

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