Agonist2018

About Me:

I have thought carefully about this (sometimes too much). I am married and not wanting to change that situation. But there is something missing and, at times, I am not sure how to live without that... I am not a player and not looking to become one even at this point in life. I am much more interested in connecting with someone.

Plaintive note over .. time to be more upbeat. I am successful, hardworking, educated, intelligent and quick-witted. Capable of holding a normal and interesting conversation.. but filling this in too late/early in the morning to demonstrate my unique personality ...

Looks wise - slim build, Asian, all my own teeth. If you are looking for a rugby playing, six-foot behemoth..then I am not for you.

Ideal Partner:

I've thought a little about this and the first thing that comes to mind is "a real person". Not looking for a model but a person who has life experience. Someone who has a happyish home life i.e. it's a situation that they do not want to change but where there is something missing. Hopefully that means she can understand that this will be about juggling priorities particularly if there are children. My preference is therefore for someone in a similar situation i.e. married.

So it's someone who wants to embark on an adventure that is founded on a friendship. I'm not sure its possible to do this without being overcome by anxiety etc if you do not have a shared desire to communicate.

In terms of a type - I don't really have one. I truly believe age is just a number. I'm more interested in connecting with someone who is thoughtful, articulate and can speak her own mind.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - World, Politics, Literature / History, Movies / Cinema

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