bugdriver16

About Me:

What is your idea of a perfect date? A week in Southern Europe, wondering the streets of old cities, wine at outdoor cafes, walks through rural villages? How about a long weekend skiing in the Alps? Or, maybe a long hike to an alpine lake, returning to a mountain home and a warm fire? Maybe you'd like a day-trip flying up to a seaside harbor. Or, maybe a clandestine meeting at a cafe? What would you think of feeling warm massage oil dripping onto your bare back and then feeling masculine hands rubbing it in? Add chocolate and we've reached Nirvana!

Having an affair is hard (pun intended). But, it can be a tremendously exciting experience, beyond maybe the very first time. It is new. It is forbidden. It is with someone with different experiences to share. For me, It is not about fulfilling some fantasy; it is about having the time of my life with a mature woman who can appreciate a man whose focus is to please a woman intellectually and sexually.

Are you looking for someone for stimulating conversation, or do you want to giggle about the absurdity of it all? Are you living for the NOW, or thinking of the future? Are you happier when you give a gift, or receive a gift? I like to think of myself as a reluctant intellectual. I have the education and experience to fit in at the President's Ball. But, I'm down to earth and love to laugh. I want to seize the moment, while I plan for the future. The gift I like giving is making someone else happy. What really turns me on is a woman who is willing to trust me to take her to wonderful places. I want a woman who will trust her own instincts about a man who is sincere. I am not turned on by someone who has set up rules based on their pipe-dreams. I have had my best times with women who confounded my expectations.

Ideal Partner:

The ideal partner is someone who can be your friend first and lover second. I want someone who wants more than just a slam, bam. I want someone who enjoys letting the hours go by, caressing and sharing pleasure. Also, my partner must understand the need for discretion.

The past fifteen years have been a period of sexual learning and growth. I enjoy a woman who can relax, is easy-going, like me, and isn't hung up about wanting the perfect man. As my past lovers and I have found, the best matches come when you aren't expecting it.

Other Interests:

Nature, Hiking / Camping, Ice / Snow Sports, Travel / Sightseeing

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