Elements94

About Me:

Have been here before, please read age range and profile.

I don’t/ won’t do pictures until I’m sure who I’m talking to and never ever of a personal nature, so if you’re after naked stuff then I’m not for you. There’s too much risk and scope for abuse, there are plenty of other places to get those kicks.

Just so there’s no doubt here, I’m not girly and feminine, I’m not petite and thin (though I’m not fat, I exercise a lot but I’m also in my 40’s) and I don’t own stockings. I’m never immaculately presented and you’d be hard pressed to find me out of my jeans. I’m not pretending I’m something I’m not... and the photos thing isn’t negotiable, no matter how hard you try.

Despite probably massive evidence to the contrary above 😉I'm laid back, a bit of an idiot and as long as you're truthful then I have no expectations. I'm here to get to know someone, for a bit of attention, not to cause drama or to make life difficult for myself. Which seems to be the hardest bit.

Ideal Partner:

Looking for one, not many (I don’t have the time or inclination for more than one) to meet occasionally, when it suits both of us. I have a very busy work & social schedule but will find the time for the right person. On occasion it might be difficult, if you will struggle with this and get mardy or needy please don’t bother reading further.

You've got to be able to hold a conversation, be interested and interesting and make me laugh. I want us to be able to build a connection and trust, especially given past history. Before messaging asking what I’m looking for, this is it.

I don’t mean to offend anyone but I’m really not interested if you are more than a couple of years younger or older than me. It would be good if you regularly go to the gym or play sport regularly or love the outdoors. Ideally over 6ft and not overweight.

Don’t be precious if family come first or if meetings or even messages are erratic due to work or family commitments. This isn’t a replacement, so family will always come first. It goes without saying it’s holidays, kids are off so I’m not sneaking off. I’ll unlikely message when they’re around or we’re on a day out or on holiday.

This is really important and where I find my previous experiences lacking … Despite being on this site please be honest, we're all in this together, for the same thing, most of us are already lying/fibbing/ omitting the truth to someone, why bother making life difficult and spin more tales on here too... I don’t know how some people manage to keep up with themselves?!

Other Interests:

Nature, Gym / Aerobics, Shopping, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking, Food and Wine

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