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About Me:

I am a relaxed, outgoing, practical guy with a large sense of humour.

I have been happily married for many years, so what am I doing here? Relationships change over time and like many here my relationship is nice, friendly, comfortable but not very romantic or tactile. I would like to experience again the thrill of the chase, the power of a new kiss and the opportunity to woo and get to know a new lady. (Lets leave aside the moral question for later discussion). I would like to explore another relationship without rocking any boats.

Discretion and honesty are required and promised in return. I am looking for an affair with a lady who is married, seperated or possibly single and not looking currently for a full time commitment. We would need to be friends before anything else and I think a single lady may want more time and attention than I am available to give, but you may have your own ideas on that..

So who am I? Well I'm retired and moving smoothly through the higher decades of life. I find this amazing because just yesterday I was an innocent sixteen dancing to Queen and Status Quo! By way of good genes pool and a healthy and sporting lifestyle I am in pretty good nick and can still ski with gay abandon, jump off walls and ladders but find twisting a most difficult dance now, certainly not the way I did last summer 30 years ago.

I'm very practical person so always mending, inventing, and sorting out problems, often at my daughters house in London.

So although life is pretty full I miss the close cuddles and touching of early married life, the dirty dancing and passionate kisses, the flirting and inuendo. How did it all become so comfortable?

I'm six foot tall, slim build but not lightweight, greying hair and not too many wrinkles, talkative, positive, love humour and leg pulling and a sucker for a new experience. I love to escape, beaches, mountains, forests, stargazing, a log fire, a soft body and quiet cuddle. I'm slowing down but only a little. Do you have a little bit of time and enough passion to open the next chapter together? It will be tricky but I think it will be fun?

Ideal Partner:

You are probably married or in a long relationship but not getting enough affection in your life. You are looking for a long term friend and lover, an illicit romance. You are your own person, fun, relaxed, prepared to experiment, active and physically fairly fit, interested in your looks but not intense about it. You could be bohemian or international possibly sporting or interested in the outdoors, but definately passionate, caring, honest and discreet.

You are looking for an adventure not a new life, you love kissing and cuddling and are not shy to hold hands in public. You won't be a slave to money but will like nice things. Hopefully you have a varied taste in books, music films and the theatre. You would visit an art gallery or museum but not want to spend all day there. So interested in all things and passionate about some.

Age is not an issue and beauty is really in the person, but active, interested and feisty are a must, as is honesty (I know, we can discuss this issue together) and reliability. If you are the lady I'm looking for we would want to spend some time getting to know each other. Meeting up may not be easy with if you also have a busy life, but it will definately be fun! You need to be reasonably near Chichester or South London so we can get together easily otherwise we will never get a chance to meet. For me it is easier to meet in the day rather than the evening but all things are possible. (I am so sorry all you lovely northern ladies but please be practical!)

If you have done this sort of thing before then you will understand the difficulties.

One big ask, please read my profile carefully and don't write if you don't fall into the right broad spectrum. Getting messages from feisty 45 year olds who want to explore their sexual side is exciting but not fulfilling when they then say they are looking for a 40 -50 year old male living in London!!

I look forward to hearing from you if you feel we might click.

Other Interests:

Arts / Crafts, Gardening, Music - Country, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Cycling, Tennis / Racket Sports, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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