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GrahamFitz

50, Southwark

Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Friendship, See how it goes

Caucasian/White, Non-Smoker, Light / Social Drinker

Occupation: Education & Science
Education: Doctoral Degree/Ph.D
Eye Colour: Green
Hair Colour: Red
Religion: Agnostic/None

Looking for Female between the ages of 45 and 55

Star Sign: Pisces
Last Active: Within 24 Hours

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About Me:

You know that old chestnut that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results? Here I am, a man whose wife does not want to have sex with him, paying to join a website populated by women who do not want to have sex with their husbands. What could possibly go wrong?

I'm not here looking for an "upgrade" from my wife. She is clever, good looking, and upright. It is just that she has discovered she is likely asexual.

It is unlikely I will be an upgrade to your husband. I am not tall (5'7"), muscular, rich, or sexually athletic. I have limited time to invest in an affair. I have the stresses and struggles of any real human.

So why bother reading on? I can offer decent, intelligent conversation. I prioritise connection and non-judgemental interaction from the start. I am not a player. I do not ghost. Apart from one, obvious, big lie, I will be honest and up front. I'm not bad at giving massages if you have a sore back. Oh, and maybe you have a thing for baldies with beards.

I'm based on southeast London, work near Waterloo, willing to travel in London.

Ideal Partner:

If you've read this far, you are not looking for a husband upgrade or a fictional, fantasy man. Perhaps you're like me and you just want what you're missing at home.

Like Billy Bragg, I've had relations with girls from many nations. That is, it doesn't matter what ethnicity you are. I'm not looking for a model, I'm looking for a real women around my own age who has probably had kids and isn't the same shape as in her 20s. I'm not saying I'm attracted to everybody, just that I'm not setting a bar on these bases.

I hope you're looking for more than just conversation and restaurant dates, although those are a nice way to start. I hope that intimacy, for you, is something we relax down into, not something we have to whip ourselves up into. I hope it involves letting down our guard, not keeping up an impressive illusion.

Other Interests:

Nature, Music - Blues/Jazz, Politics, Religion, Cycling, Martial Arts, Singing / Playing Instrument, Computers / Internet, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking