foxglove

About Me:

As a woman on this site for over a month now I have become so weary of the profile cliches 'Looking for that spark' etc...'marriage grown stale' etc...'fun and friendship' etc..'I would describe myself as cheeky' etc... 'I would like to meet a lovely lady for good times' etc...

I'm sure the people behind these cliches are all decent people but surely there must be a better way to evoke yourself?! As you can probably tell I'm moving out of the honeymoon phase of buzzing with excitement at the whole thing, being on a high if you like, to the marginally despondent stage. What I've said makes me sound jaded, actually I'm not like that at all!

After my slight rant it is now beholden to me to try and do a decent job of putting myself across in writing! I would say that ie is a liberating experience, one that is generally preceded by years of suppression. In my case a suppression of large parts of who I am, with a high sex drive being only part of that.IE has become an exploration in understanding myself and gradually understanding what/who it is I'm looking for! I have discovered that kissing a stranger is fine but rather soulless. I have found that effort is required and that building something through dialogue can lead to a depth of connection which doesn't happen if you just plunge straight in(as it were)to a meet up etc.

I don't want to fill my profile with the blatantly obvious, I want to try and give you a flavour of who I am.I love good films and music of all genres and periods. I marvel and wonder at nature and the form it takes; the colour and structure of an insect or plant, a breath taking landscape, the variation and simplicity of animals, the universe! So I guess I am deep and complex, sensitive, passionate, compassionate, strong, physical,and kind. I'm always looking for humour and more than the everyday in every day. No man (or woman) is an island, we are not meant to live like that!

I love to ski, especially when you find those quiet moments on the slopes when the sun is out and all around you glitters silently.I do also enjoy mountain biking and have in the past cycled in Utah,Colorado and California.These days it's local with friends and the odd charity event.I keep fit with personal training twice a week, yoga twice a week (got to keep flexible!)and biking at least once a week.

A bit of a catalogue of info now follows as I think that taste in film, music and literature tells us a lot about a person!

Films I like:
Lost in Translation, Gladiator,The Graduate,The Royal Tenenbaums, Witness,Crazy Stupid Love,+Blade Runner,Being John Malkovich,In the Heat of the Night,Something about Mary,Platoon,The English Patient,About Schmidt,Lady Chatterley(French 2006 version),Pulp Fiction,Blade Runner,When Harry Met Sally,Groundhog Day,Cinema Paradiso,Win Win,Sideways,Hot Fuzz,Interview with a Vampire,Spirited Away,Ground Hog Day,Moulan Rouge,Doctor Zhivago,The Shining,Notorious,Spellbound,The Good Bad and the Ugly,Pale Rider, The Unforgiven,Hannah and her Sisters,Crimes & Misdemeanors.I am also aware that there are a lot of great world cinema films that I have yet to see.

Actors and Actresses I like:
Jack Nicholson,Paul Giamatti,Robert De Niro,Daniel Day-Lewis,Lawrence Olivier,Clint Eastwood,Sidney Poitier,Johnny Depp,Bill Murray,Jim Carrey,Gregory Peck,Christopher Walken,Joaquin Phoenix,Colin Firth,Gary Oldman,Ed Norton,Christian Bale,Harrison Ford, Ingrid Bergman,Naomi Watts,Kate Winslet,Cate Blanchette,Bette Davis,Judi Dench,Emma Thompson,Julianne Moore,Amy Adams,Jessica Lange,Catherin Keener,Scarlett Johansson,Rachel McAdams,Joan Fontaine,Joan Crawford,Jean Simmons.

Comedy I Like:The Inbetweeners,Reeves & Mortimer,The Office,Extras,Father Ted,The League of Gentlemen,Frasier
The Fast Show.

Music I like(a very small cross section!):
Arctic Monkeys,Tame Impala,Disclosure,Beatles,Led Zepplin,Rachmaninov,Pulp,Roxy Music,Bowie.

Literature:
Restoration,Music and Silence,Bird Song,Blind Assassin,Charlotte Grey. So fav authors being Jane Austin,Rose Tremain,Sebastian Faulks,Margaret Atwood and Kate Atkinson.

It's not so easy to find the person we are looking for is it?! A lot of false starts, a lot of time and effort invested. We all know what it would feel like to have that person in our lives and I believe it is something worth striving for! I am 5" 7' with shoulder length blonde hair and hazel eyes. I have a warm attractive face, sensual mouth, a sexy chest! I am a size 14 and tend to dress fairly casually and tastefully. I like to look after myself and keep myself clean,fresh and smelling good.

Ideal Partner:

Ultimately I'm looking for someone with whom I can form a bond, a bond that will help us deal with the marriages/relationships that we want to sustain for others. I have a great sense of fun and a strong need for emotional and physical intimacy. I need to be sexually, sensually and erotically fulfilled. I'm looking for friendship and a real connection. I like a well educated and articulate man with great humour. Someone who can express themselves well and is prepared to make an effort in all things including the ability to write interesting messages.I have no specific stipulation on appearance. Someone reasonably local would be good.Finally I do enjoy a good laugh and like to be quite childish at times because life as an adult can be far too serious!

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Gardening, Nightclubs / Clubs, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Literature / History, Cycling, Gym / Aerobics, Dancing, Ice / Snow Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Food and Wine

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