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| Religion | Agnostic/None | Eyes | Brown |
| Drinking | Light / Social Drinker | Hair | Black |
| Smoking | Non-Smoker | Figure | Curvaceous |
| Height | 5'2''-5'6'' (157-169cm) | Education | Graduate/Masters Degree |
| Occupation | Other | ||
| Interests: Dancing, Food and Wine, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Gym / Aerobics, Literature / History, Motor Racing, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Hip Hop, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - World, Nature, Nightclubs / Clubs, Politics, Shopping, Singing / Playing Instrument, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Yoga / Meditation | |||
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| Male between the ages of 28 and 42 |
| *Please read my full profile before responding.* *Underneath this feisty profile designed to avoid wasting each other’s time, you may yet find the 'me' that is also laid-back (yes, really!), soft, kind, gentle, generous, happy, fun, intelligent, creative, who smiles and laughs a lot and is everyone’s best friend.* I'm unlikely to respond to a virtual kiss - not many people here are so exceptionally perfect, they needn't make an effort! Nor will I respond to txt spk or to anyone who asks for my PW on first email, especially without offering theirs, that's just rude. I've given my profile some thoughts, so write something and if you can’t be bothered to write, you’re probably not for me. If you think being with me will be complicated or difficult, you're wrong, you don't know me, have faith, I should know *me* better. I am looking for an affair with a lover who will also become a friend, and not my soulmate. I have the latter already. Neither do I wish to meet your mother, your friends, nor to introduce you to mine. Majority of our times together will consist of you, me, a lovely hotel room, perhaps room service. What's so complicated about that? If your idea of a first date is coffee near a specific Travelodge “...should we wish to indulge.” (true story), the answer is...never. It doesn't mean that I'm necessarily high-maintenance, it's just my reality. It is very easy to list a bunch of clichéd qualities of my ideal man but this is too important not to spell out some qualities. You must be a non smoker ideally aged 28 to 42, the odd celebratory cigar away from our meetings, is just fine. I want someone who can spell the word "discreet" (different from discrete) or someone who is curious enough to Google the difference now that I’ve mentioned it...:-) More importantly, someone who firmly understands its true meanings. Telling your virtual or real mates all about our relationship is a no no please. I desire someone who is looking for an exclusive relationship with just one woman and who understands that whilst our primary relationships MUST always come first, it takes some effort to have a successful affair. You should be able to communicate by email or talk on the phone. I would rather meet than have long protracted email conversations. Virtual chats with men I’ve not met, bore me senseless. And no, I am not on MSN and have no interest in downloading one in order to have a virtual chat with you. I don't want a player, womaniser or serial adulterer but I'm sorry no affair fantasists! I would prefer someone like me, who has done this before or at the least, someone who will fully appreciate what it entails to have an affair and not merely fantasize about one. If you're undecided about affairs, how about deciding first before paying on a dating website or pretty please just stay the hell away from me?! I believe that the brain is the greatest aphrodisiac and you must be well-educated and intelligent. I’m also looking for someone successful, solvent, discerning, well-mannered and a gentleman - but naturally I want you to be a slut in bed...:-) Personality wise, I prefer confident, out-going, non-judgmental, open minded, adventurous, sexual men who can laugh at me and with me, and find fun in the little things in life as well as the finer things in life. You should ideally be London based otherwise it won't really work as I can't really travel unless of course for that erotic escape to Paris, New York...:-) |
| Type Of Relationship Friendship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, See how it goes |
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| *Please read my full profile before responding.* I'm an attractive, fun, confident, well educated, well travelled, intelligent, discerning woman with a kind, warm and generous heart. I have a creative, imaginative, adventurous, sexual, sensual, fun, flirty, playful and very naughty nature. I'm witty, with a great sense of humour and I'm often told that I'm great company and conversationalist. In the right company, I smile and laugh a lot. Life shouldn't always be so serious!!! I love my husband deeply and have no business trawling IE for a lover. However, although I am happily married (yes, really), my darling husband has given up on sex. I am here to find a lover but in a respectful, caring, happy and fun relationship. I am passionate, genuinely love sex, and I'm been told by ALL ex boyfriends that I give the best oral ever! Ha! That woke you up...:-) Shit, the expectations... |
| My Appearance |
| *Please read my full profile before responding.* I am very feminine, have a fabulous dress sense and I am always well dressed. I am fit, energetic, work out 5 times a week and have done so for over 15 years (not that it shows!), happy and comfortable with myself, a beautiful size 14/16 and shrinking daily! I'm too imperfect to ever win any beauty competitions. If perfection is your thing, then try the next profile and erm...good luck with that! I'm often described by men as pretty, have "IT" and exude raw sex appeal, whatever that means. Ultimately, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and we can only decide whether we "fancy" each other when we meet and not based on two dimensional photos. I also have a physical disability (always happy to talk about it privately) and if that would put you off saying hello, you're clearly not for me. It doesn't stop me being a fantastic lover (with the right person) and a great catch. *Cheese alert.* Catch me if you can...:-) You may be pleasantly surprised by what I can do, but sorry, no bungee jumping, bouncing around off the ceiling fan or the much adored proverbial chandelier but if those things rock your world, I will happily cheer you on! I have password protected photos that will give you some idea of me (often told I look better in real life) and I will exchange with the right person. |
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WARNING: NOT EVERYONE IS SUITED TO HAVING AN AFFAIR. THEY ARE NOT AN ALTERNATIVE TO WORKING ON OR ENDING A MARRIAGE. NOT ALL AFFAIRS HAVE A POSITIVE EFFECT ON A MARRIAGE, SOME CAN BE VERY DAMAGING. ALWAYS CONSIDER OTHER PEOPLE AND IF YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE AN AFFAIR, PLEASE SELECT YOUR PARTNER WISELY.
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