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| Religion | Atheist | Eye Colour | Brown |
| Drinking | Light / Social Drinker | Hair Colour | Brown |
| Smoking | Non-Smoker | Build | Athletic |
| Height | 6'0'' (183cm) or above | Education | Graduate/Masters Degree |
| Occupation | Retired | ||
| Interests | Gardening, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Literature / History, Singing / Playing Instrument, Mountaineering, Sailing / Boating, Ice / Snow Sports, Tennis / Racket Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema | ||
Ideal Partner: |
| Female between the ages of 42 and 58 |
| I am looking for a rapport; and a liaison which is by no means shallow, but does not disturb your marital equilibrium or my own. Excitement balanced by tranquility. "Emotions really exist at the bottom of the personality or at the top. In the middle they are acted. This is why the world is a stage, and why the theatre...is like life, and it is like life even though it is the most vulgar and outrageously factitious of all the arts... The theatre, even at its most 'realistic', is connected with the level at which, and the methods by which, we tell our everyday lies." (From "The Sea the Sea" by Iris Murdoch.) You will recognise that reference to Iris's thoughts on mannered mendacity imply a desire in this profile to be authentic, and that I am adverse to the use of this forum as a stage for the exchange of proxies of ourselves which bear little relation to the truth. I will assume that if you respond you will have charm and strong standards; and that you are interested in exploring a relationship outside the fantastic world of this site. |
| Type of Relationship Friendship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, See how it goes |
More Information |
| General |
| An amitie amoureuse please... To be crafted from the dreams that may already have been given us. I saw in San Francisco recently a Chinese painting of two women regarding themselves in a mirror - an explicit celebration of vanity as a refinement, which a chap may acknowledge and admire in a woman, but never emulate. For us, even a claim to modesty is self-defeating. So please engage your imagination. I believe however I may say that I have a certain quality of naturalness, which will give you an immediate sense of relating to the person, not to a persona - but the absence of affectation does not imply that I may never playfully adopt deliberate or pleasing pretences which are patently and intentionally transparent. (there however no fibs in this profile.) Self-descriptions are more apt to mislead than inform, and it is incident (adopting a colourful description in which the agent was not events but hooch whisy) that opens the window to the soul. My profile picture alludes to austere and occasional piano lessons which are a celebration of discipline. My heroes are two gardeners and Socrates. (That statement has been criticised, as Socrates, who is often misunderstood, is a villain to many - so I am considering alternatives. Now at least one charming woman has asked me about the gardeners.) I find the race question in the profile info distasteful. In the last census, and paying very specific attention to traditional meaning, I described myself accurately as "non -ethnic". But anyone with whom I might get on, would not regard any particular ethnicity (or non-ethnicity) as a requirement. |
| My Appearance |
| My hair is potentially as profuse as it was when I was eighteen, and as dark brown, save for a few tinges of grey. Strangers are bemused by the fact of my retirement. In relation to my chronological age (blast the Beatles) please extrapolate... Many years ago a professional meeting had been arranged in a public place. The woman I was to meet was told: "You will have no difficulty in recognising him: he is tall, dark, and handsome." When I eventually met her she looked me up and down with distaste, and said: "I couldn't disagree more." So if you like my profile, please ask for pics, which may please or disappoint, but will also probably surprise. |
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