Anonymous User - 06 Sep, 2012 - 06:21PM

I had an affair with a Dom on this site and it was the most erotic experience in just the way described. For me it felt respectful and negotiated. I consented to being a sub for the times we were together and it was a turn on to allow someone to be in charge for that agreed time. As a powerful woman in business and in my life I really appreciated the freedom of someone else leading the way sexually at that time. Thank you Sir. It was fun to play.

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Anonymous User - 06 Sep, 2012 - 08:15AM

Anon user 5th Sept 2.40. Yes I totally agree with you. I think the whole BDSM thing betrays a lack of warmth, sensitivity and imagination. There is a whole range of scenarios for "Normal / Vanilla" sex ranging from the hotel cliche to alfresco not to mention the actual love making itself. It seems to have become the go-to option for those who see themselves as unconventional and adventurous but in reality are just conforming to a cliched and hackneyed behaviour stereotype.

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Anonymous User - 05 Sep, 2012 - 08:13AM

What I much prefer is working out what works for each other and where the necessary chemistry leads, with an open mind. In which case, it's really whatever works between the couple! How do we know what we like if we've never tried it?

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Anonymous User - 05 Sep, 2012 - 02:40AM

I promised myself I would not send a response to this letter, but alas cannot help myself. I think it is all a load of .... you fill in the blanks! How many of these doms have wives who are not subs? Can't take the heat? What would their wives think of them looking for this kind of sexual relationship? What happened to sex being about fun, romance, feel good stuff. I for one do not want just sex dom/sub or whatever, I want a real affair where we are both equal, where we can enjoy ourselves in and out of the bedroom and even laugh during sex, after all it is not a serious pastime is it? And what the hell is this vanilla sex? I believe we all come in lots of different flavours

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Habitus - 04 Sep, 2012 - 11:42PM

But he was so into himself he forgot to tell the lady how lovely she looked

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Anonymous User - 04 Sep, 2012 - 09:46PM

I met a man here (we are not together anymore) and convinced me I am submissive. I never knew I'd enjoy being told what to do in bed. We played role games like hotel guest-room maid or policeman-thief and etc... It's a shame our affair ended, I trully enjoyed myself... now hoping to find another DOM :) xxx.

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MatureDomUK - 03 Sep, 2012 - 09:39PM

Spot on puresubmission. We all have to start somewhere, but not from just reading 50 shades of c... A real submissive may harbour thoughts that take years before they become strong enough to emerge......like a crysalis to a butterfly......with the inbuilt instinct to match. Liked the scenario though........not so far removed from reality......and no, she wouldn't giggle....though later.....that look on her face......any real submissive knows about that.

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the sassy sirena - 03 Sep, 2012 - 01:35AM

I think that we all have the power to be either sub or dom. It depends who your partner is, having experienced both sides to this, Im naturally feisty but there was one man who gave me his time, travelled a long distance and wonderful play so I would do anything he asked of me.

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puresubmission - 01 Sep, 2012 - 10:25PM

If I had changed in the bathroom of the elegant hotel and returned to the darkened bedroom to stand
proudly before him wearing gorgeous black underwear, stockings and heels. My hands behind my back, eyes closed, and legs.. open and available, looking gorgeous then he would already know the answer and would not need to ask the question. - He could take me anywhere he wanted me to go. I wouldn't be there otherwise.

If I were there, we would have already established the dynamic of our potential relationship, built a connection and would be content that we had reached a mutual understanding of the extent of my submission and his dominance. We would already have an intimacy of minds.. There appear to be several guys who want to skip this crucial step and move straight to the main event. If you cannot captivate my mind and enchant me with your words, you certainly can't take your whip to my body. There's even romance in those ropes you know!

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Anonymous User - 31 Aug, 2012 - 07:03PM

I was born a submissive its part of who I am.. 50 shades has no understanding of the real life of a submissive, the female character only wanted to submit when it suited her, that is not a true representation of a true sub. I have spoken to men who seem to think that submissive means 'I like it rough' nothing can be further from the truth. I love to please and enjoy all the trappings that go along with that both in and out of the bedroom. I am not a doormat though and strangly am in control of who I allow to dominate me.

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Anonymous User - 31 Aug, 2012 - 06:47AM

I think many wannabe (or want to be) Doms think that the point of D/s is to get the girl/lady/woman/sub to do whatever he wants her to so the thought is appealing (eg. I will set the scenario: man sitting on sofa watching his footy with a beer in one hand and the woman on all fours with his feet up on her back - she is dressed in nearly nothing but has a leash on and fetches him beers when he barks his orders to do so - when the footy is over he then demands she blows him which she complies to immediately with desire to please him to the fullest, she then massages his feet practically wagging a tail like a dog.) The reality here is a true D/s relationship means the man gives the woman pleasure, and she also returns the favour. The Dom gets his kicks from pleasuring the woman in a manner in which she has given herself fully to trust him and how far he can take her. I dont do the whole dom/sub thing, it doesn't interest me, but I do know that people definitely have got the wrong end of the stick and it can get dangerous when you do not know what you are doing or have a false perception... especially if you are the dom and have a false perception...

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Anonymous User - 29 Aug, 2012 - 08:51PM

I would not giggle but I may laugh whilst looking directly at you, a challenge perhaps?

Christian Grey I am led to believe was at some point to be a vampire hence his age would then have been way more than his twenty something years giving him a wealth of experience.

I remember having conversations in relation to BDSM and infact entering into a relationship with a Dom some 10 years ago, interesting times. Funny how things go round in circles and each time they crop up there are always those who look at it as if it were all brand new.

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needsomefun28 - 29 Aug, 2012 - 08:28PM

I would be very happy but that has nothing to do with 50 shades of badly written crap.

I absolutely love being a sub and everything that comes with that.

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Anonymous User - 28 Aug, 2012 - 09:21AM

Hello,
I have a friend who's a Dom and he's very different to Christain Gray..the fact that in the book he is in his late 20's is laughable, can a man of that age truly understand women....and "no" I haven't read it.
Any woman who is submissive would know it without asking the ??? and

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Anonymous User - 28 Aug, 2012 - 12:48AM

The recent trilogy by no means reflects the world of BDSM as it really is. I'm a Dom, have been for a number of years now and have known several true submissive women. It's a lifestyle of total trust and openness and the pleasure that both participants feel, far surpasses that of a vanilla relationship. There is such variety within the lifestyle too and always new things to experience. Without fail, the women I've known all love the feel of rope used to tightly restrain. For those uninitiated, go on try it, I bet you'll feel something you've never felt before

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Return2Love - 27 Aug, 2012 - 10:38PM

Everyone has different sets of boundaries and we like to think our way is the right way,I believe that to be able to receive pleasure you need to know how to give it, to be dominant you need to know how to submit and vice versa. To understand something in someone else you first need to come to terms with it in yourself.

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Anonymous User - 27 Aug, 2012 - 08:55PM

Mmmmmm....xxDominantxx, I was lost in a fantasy world of my own. Im watching you sipping the Babycham. You arise from the chair, slowly but purposefully walk across to the edge of the bed. The gold medallion on your orangey tanned hairy chest shines as it catches the light. You lift one hand and twirl the end of your thick moustache which I find incredibly tantalising. Im now quivering with excitement at the thought of you removing your brown and beige nylon Y fronts!!!! :-D

Sorry, but it's cliched and reminds me of a 70s porn film.

50 Sheds of Grey made me laugh but Im not wasting my time reading 50 Shades. It makes me want to zzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!

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Anonymous User - 27 Aug, 2012 - 06:50PM

l believe there are different levels of sub and dom in all relationships, as long as the safe boundaries are not crossed and trust is lost, each to their own.
to find a dom who you totally trust is wonderful and fulfilling the best and deepest kind of relationship, and no or very little pain need be involved, once the mind is sub the rest will follow

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Playfull_Dee - 27 Aug, 2012 - 03:20PM

I think im naturally dominate, when i read the letter all i thought of was him blindfolded, sat in a chair and waiting for me to indulge in him! x

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Anonymous User - 27 Aug, 2012 - 11:35AM

Forget fifty shades of grey as that is an updated mills and boon story,I can give you fifry shades of grey as ive a lover who keeps me going all the time and can sweep christen grey of the map,also I love being submissive as its a change as in my normal life im always doing all the running about whathave you,so that is the reason that Im submissive.

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Tia67 - 27 Aug, 2012 - 12:32AM

Fifty Shades may be a boring read, but what it did was to bring that kind of relationship into the public domain, many people have spoken about it and how they would feel if it was them.. we are all here for that illicit, exciting and passionate affair and one thing to say we all have the choice on how far that may be pushed and if we want to be, so I say if that is you, enjoy the ride and above all stay safe :)

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secretly_seeking - 26 Aug, 2012 - 10:26PM

50 Shades of Grey is about as far removed from BDSM as chocolate flavoured cake covering is from 70% dark chocolate. Like many here, I have experienced true D/s and it's far more about attitudes than it is about stockings and suspenders. 50 Shades is a knight in shining armour fairy tale and full of utter rubbish. I have experienced contracts and bondage, pain and pleasure, and the true escape that a good Master can bring.

On the other hand, there's certainly nothing wrong with simple kinky sex either - it doesn't have to be about the exchange of power to be exciting and fulfilling.

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Anonymous User - 26 Aug, 2012 - 10:05PM

Surely the most exciting thing about Fifty Shades is that Mr Grey is a billionaire!

Would all the women be so keen if he has bad personal hygine, drives a Reliant Robin and lives in a squalid flat??? Thought not!

Oh btw, I'd have trouble trying to stifle my laughter!!!

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Anonymous User - 26 Aug, 2012 - 02:00PM

not entirely sure I would be able to speak

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mignonette - 26 Aug, 2012 - 01:55PM

*yawn*

sex by numbers is the worst kind of sex - and creating tacky (very tacky) scenarios just takes away the mystery. The second a man starts going on about stockings and suspenders I loose all interest and respect.

Hooray for the mavericks.

I bought a copy of 50 shades of turd because I thought I should read it before I slated it. I read a few lines and promptly decided just to slate it.

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yorkslass007 - 26 Aug, 2012 - 08:21AM

i'd probably quiver with excitement !!

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TravelledOne - 25 Aug, 2012 - 09:13PM

Horses for courses. Ho Hum, bored now. Who's for fun?

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 07:31PM

I am utterly baffled by all of this stuff. What's wrong with good old fashioned romantic gentle love making with tenderness and care? All this business of taking control of your partner and them submitting to your every demand makes you sound like complete control FREAKS to me!!

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 06:53PM

What the hell are you all blathering on about??
Miss Frisky I couldn't agree with you more. Yes - intensely boring.

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 05:05PM

You don't need a litmus test, ladies, you just need to know that a true dom would have many conversations with you before you get as far as the bedroom. During these conversations it will become obvious how far either of you wishes to go.

The sub will always have the power as she is the one who can call a halt at any point in the proceedings.

Agree with the comment above about ratings boosting!

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mistressprowess - 25 Aug, 2012 - 03:11PM

I have spent a month on here searching for someone to take me to the places I want to go emotionally and sexually, to explore the boundaries I am unable to do at home. I created a very honest profile, and it gained far much more interest than I expected.
All I wanted was a married man who would be a passionate lover that I could have fun with, share intimate moments with, be adventurous an explore our deeper passion.
My name suggests being a mistress but every guy on here ASSUMES that I am a DOM probably because of 50 shades and that is not the case!! I simply am referring to being the mistress of a married man, I find it so maddening that most of the guys here think you will automatically play with them without finding out anything about you at all. I have enjoyed the 50 shades trilogy but it is alarming how many guys now assume that its the be all and end all to a sexual affair or getting laid. I have been sent phone numbers with a lets not beat around the bush attitude, links to Dom / sub sites and one particular guy who is no longer using this site who got quite shirty when I wouldn't 'play' a long with his ideas of domination. Scary thing is he will move on to some unsuspecting inexperienced woman now.
It's ruining it for all the genuine guys who do use this site for genuine reasons and it makes it all the more harder for females to sift through all the crap mail and stay safe.
I have been fortunate in striking up some good friendships though which makes up for the gigolos, predators, players and time wasters. I have heard the success stories too. I am sure we all have our naughty side why else would we be here?
My first reaction was, I've heard it all before, not another one!
However, it does conjure up that butterflies feeling for me and I would love all of the above in the right context of an affair. To allure and resonate passion between two lovers offers a wild combination of erotica, power and seduction that you would want to have time and time again together...reality or fantasy, choose your IE partner carefully if they don't know what they are doing its a very dangerous place to go. Take care :0)

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 01:39PM

If I tell my lover I want him to be dominant and treat me as his sub, who is the Dom and who is the sub? My lover and I have discussed this in some detail as we both achieve great pleasure in pleasing each other. If I ask him to restrain me he does it because I like it, and pleasing me turns him on, whereas simply restraining me for his pleasure doesn't excite him at all. Likewise, being told to be submissive is a turn off for me, I like to be in charge of my own sensuality.
It may not work for anyone, but it works for us.

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 12:21PM

I'd much rather HE was standing in front of me wearing sexy black lingerie, stockings etc with his hands behind his back while I sip champagne contemplating exactly how he's going to pleasure me.

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 11:31AM

I would definitely submit. An ex-lover introduced me to a side of my sexuality I had never explored before. The sex was mind blowing and I haven't had anything like it since. There is also the trust and emotional connection that comes with... On the other hand, The Fifty Shades trilogy is awful (a friend loaned them to me once she had finished reading them) and I must admit to being disappointingly underwhelmed reading them. Not a realistic depiction at all.

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 10:07AM

Giggles. Gaffaws, even.

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 08:47AM

The 1st man I met on IE started off as an amazing lover but has unearthed my submissive side, he is not a 'Dom' and I am not a 'Sub', however things are certainly hotting up.....He has never hurt me and has never restrained me, he says he doesnt need to as I am a girl and do just as he asks[although the thought of him putting me over his.....ummmm]

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Anonymous User - 25 Aug, 2012 - 07:08AM

One lady here says that the Dominant always has the power, but it must be remembered that each submissive is unique and will desire different pleasures (some including pain), mostly with boundaries. A true Dominant will have the power, will push those boundaries to their limits but will never cross them. The submissive always has the power to stop any play but should never need to use it; the Dominant will be able to read the sub missives responses responses and not take play too far.

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chrissinclair - 25 Aug, 2012 - 12:09AM

Isn't grey such a boring colour?

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:58PM

Oh what an awesome way to draw attention to yourself and get more than the average number of contacts. Hats off to you!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:22PM

Lets not forget ladies and gents.

Ana was paid well to shut up and put up...................

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CherryPie76 - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:02PM

Whilst I think the 50 Shades books were trite, at least they've allowed people to talk about bondage in a more open way.

Just reading that scenario made my tummy flip - the submissive does have all the power. And it is a very delicious feeling. Don't knock it until you've tried it.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 10:40PM

Fifty shades is not only very badly written and repetitive it gives no insight into the depth of D/s relationships and paints a dangerous picture of what a Dom is.

I have been lucky enough to experience the most incredible trust and honesty that comes from such relationships. Once you fly with someone spiritually, emotionally and physically in this way ,you find truth and nothing comes close.
A true submissive is about pleasing and giving , not topping from the bottom as in playing power games. A true Dom holds the protection and love of his sub central to it all. It is the purest,deepest love you can get.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 09:37PM

50 Shades of Grey is the most boring read EVER! Each to their own but what scares me is that all men now think that all women want a "dom" kind of lover and this really isn't the case! Yes, a confident assertive lover is a good thing but he doesn't have to be 'dominant' .... if the chemistry is there then everything else will follow. So please guys, don't think that we all want to be cuffed to the bed and told what to do and when to do it!

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carouselgirl - 24 Aug, 2012 - 09:18PM

I wouldn’t giggle because i’m a bit of a believer in partnership to be true lovers x but i did read it all to see the end of the story lol

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 08:36PM

I just feel a bit creeped out when people use the letters page to frame their fantasies as questions.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 08:22PM

Definitely no giggling, unless slightly nervous!
Many moons ago, I was seeing the most beautiful man I had ever met. We hadn't seen much of each other but we definitely had 'good chemistry'. One night in bed, he asked me if I trusted him, and after I had said yes, he told me he was going to restrain me (loosely) and that I was to keep my eyes closed and just focus on what he was going to do to me. For a moment, I panicked madly thinking 'i'm very vulnerable' and 'what if he does something I don't like' but sensing this, he told me one word would stop him immediately. Well, without going into details, it was the most mind-blowing sexual experience I have ever had. Really!
Sadly we were not to be for the long term, and I have to admit, that I have never had an experience that even vaguely, was that exciting or fulfilling.
Each to their own, but this all happened long before Mr Grey came into our lives, and all I will say is, be safe, don't overthink it, and don't knock it till you've tried it!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 08:17PM

Reply to Miss Frisky, yes I find the whole thing boring!!!!!!!!!! Finished the books and have no idea what the fuss is about. My lover and I do most of these things as a matter of course.

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Disco Diva - 24 Aug, 2012 - 07:57PM

I find it hilarious how you all take this so seriously....

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 07:43PM

I am an (occasional) submmissive but extremely feisty hence why Dominants like me. It's the taming they like. A Dominant/Master/Sir cannot dominate withouut the submissive submitting. Ultimately the submissive is in charge. I would love to find a man that is a true Dominant such as xxDominantxx and not a nasty, bully who enjoys hurting women. I was in that dark place and luckily got out but I fell hook, line and sinker. He was a `want to be Dom'. I don't like the phrase "wannabe". It slightly irks me that so many profiles are popping up with names such as Shades of Grey or Mr Grey etc. etc. It's not case of just caning a behind, it goes much deeper, and mainly mental. I was lucky I got out and feel I wasted 6 years of my life with him. He was what you call a "want to be Dom". xxDominantxx sounds genuine and the real deal. I hope he finds a lovely lady. I have already been in touch with him explaining what I went through etc, and about my experience and he was lovely in his response to me.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 06:46PM

Before all you guys start rushing out for handcuffs, whips and chains.
Please be aware a good Dom first needs to be a great LOVER.......

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 06:09PM

no - I am not remotely interested in control freaks or men who get kicks out of spanking a lady! forget THAT!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 04:30PM

I would answer "yes sir"

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 04:05PM

Oh thank goodness for realists like madcarew !!!!!!!!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 02:25PM

I would love to try this with the right lover...just to gently submit...somehting new each meeting, would add so much of a new dimension. I think the writer forgot something......slip into gorgeous underwear which your lover has provided! Very sexy I think.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:14PM

50 shades of rubbish,i would like to think i don`t need a book to enjoy what my lover and i already have.

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Gemini Lady - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:11PM

Couldn't agree more with comment by Madcarew!! Here here!! Sod the Doms!!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 12:38PM

My relationship from here started as a "vanilla" one and as we have relaxed with each other we have explored the master/submissive idea. It has been the best sexual relationship of my life, we are still exploring the depth that sexual pleasures can take, taking it one step at a time as I was nervous to begin with. It has kept our relationship alive and exciting. We started to explore before the grey trilogy. We are on year 3 after meeting here & very happy. So I would giggle yes, my heart would race & I would know how much pleasure I am about to experience & give back. Anyone thinking of trying this should, after all you only live once, don't miss this experience!!

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aroachy - 24 Aug, 2012 - 12:33PM

As a man whose met a couple of nice ladies on here ,50 shades has showed them and me , that it is something to explore with each other and if it feels good do it,

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 12:02PM

Am I truly a submissive... Well that really depends on wether the man in my life is a true dom or just someone who thinks that copying Christian Grey will get all the ladies running. There is a huge difference and it takes time to learn both sides and get it right!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:48AM

I much prefer sex to be on an equal shared footing where both partners try to concentrate on pleasing the other. If you are well matched and the chemistry is there, how much better can it get?

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Miss Frisky - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:42AM

Is anyone else finding the '50 shades' fueled interest in BDSM boring ?

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MadCarew - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:31AM

"what do you want to do?"
"I don't know, what do you want to do?"
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How many ladies don't want a Dom but do want an assertive lover, one that knows 'what to do', what will turn on a lady and can lead them down a path of love making with them having to subdue.
So when the lady is stood there as you describe maybe some want to hear the man say "you look beautiful, you look sexy, come to me" rather than "hey luv do you wanna be a sub"

Surely we all want to please our lovers?

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:19AM

i would feel disappointed!!! while i "occasionally" enjoy being put over someones lap and spanked hard, like the naughty girl i am.....i find this current fashion for being totally submissive is 50 shades of pathetic!!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:05AM

A dom who understands the female mind.. that most like the idea of being submissive but few can actually 'take the leap of faith' as one puts it. But an understanding and patient dom could take a lady to a new level of intimacy and gratifictaion - sadly, many jump in too soon and scare off the more cautious lady..

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 10:50AM

You say I can be for the right man

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hippichik - 24 Aug, 2012 - 10:18AM

My own reply would be yes, and I have to admit, a slight smile on my face, imagining what's to(hopefully)come next.xxx
ps.my heart would be beating a little wildly too.xxx

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 10:15AM

Well i would giggle.
Am I 'compliant,pliant,amenable,passive,tractable,resigned, patient,
docile, tame, subdued' ?
He would have to be one hell of a handsome hot man!!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 10:10AM

I would love to please my lover, as i stand before him, knowing that the sight of me in my basque, stockings and heels pleases him. My legs apart, my bare pussy twitching with anticipation. My mouth ready to taste him. To explore and to be explored. Yes please !!!!!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 10:07AM

I did something like this with my ex boyfriend a long time ago. I think I groaned and managed to say something that resembled a yes.

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PageS - 24 Aug, 2012 - 08:47AM

I smiled, I played your scenario through my imagination up to an including the future date where you end up spread-eagled in cuffs and I tease you to the limit of endurance. At that I giggled and then, thanks to my daydreaming, I missed my train! For me, submission is not an all or nothing deal. I have a strong submissive streak but it is not all I can or want to be. The warnings of your previous letter still apply; finding the right dynamic is crucial regardless of the extent to which a girl wants to explore.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 08:31AM

didnt giggle, just wondered why i havent met this person yet, only joined a few days ago so i can live in hope.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 07:16AM

Yes please

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 04:26AM

50 shades arrived and now everyone is an expert !!!!!!!

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:58AM

As a Dom, I find the ladies like the idea but the actual leap of faith is something else, it takes a lot of trust, just to give yourself to someone. Of course there are different levels of Dom or is that Doms, not sure that is cat food!! A lady might think she wants that, a book that helped that idea, but the actual thought of being a Sub to a Dom or Master is something else. IE could add a category, different levels of Dom, or Master, it would give a Dom a base to start, rather than starting from scrach, if you know the playing field, it easy to start the match, cat food and football, and Doms, that is IE for you.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:48AM

Happy being on the journey. It was a slow realisation for me. Now becoming increasingly important.

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:37AM

Wannabe Doms !!!

Maybe there are one or two on her who actually are

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:03AM

I know my sex appeal and for me it's power.I would definitely submiss myself and take him to heaven.I would leave him wanting more and subsequently I would take him where I want him to go.The rest would be telling,lol.xxx

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spiderweb4you - 24 Aug, 2012 - 12:17AM

Ferst of all ,i dont think so ,the Doms could ask that ,but if they did,i would giggle,lol

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