GM204 - 02 Sep, 2012 - 04:10PM

I never ask ladies whether I'm too young for them, because they almost always say "Yes". Perhaps I need to lower my sights (so to speak!)

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Anonymous User - 27 Aug, 2012 - 07:06PM

Well, what can I say, I asked for an older man and I found what I was looking for, now, I have always been told I am very mature for my age, I put this down to being well traveled and have experienced things in life others never get to do or see, so I new what I was looking for, I don't think age has anything to do with finding someone you can connect with, i was also lucky to find that me and the man in question work in the same field, and therefore have a good common ground,, I will point out that there is 20 years between us, neither of us look our age, and after meeting, and feeling very nervous we hit it off so well, needless to say that we really enjoy each others company, now my profile some men may find intimidating, I was very clear on what i wanted, but it paid off, I will also point out that I find it highly offensive that older women are called cougars!!! And younger men toy boys, surly the vast majority of us on this sight are mature ????

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Anonymous User - 27 Aug, 2012 - 11:12AM

Age is like they say only a number its how both people are when they meet and if there is a spark as the saying also goes.But like another view I saw and its true,its seems ok for a man to have a younger person but not a woman shock horror,also why is it a woman keeps getting called names like cougar and why is it if a woman has someone younger there classed as toyboys,why cant girls be called toygirls if their younger then the man.Well Ive startr a craze now and I say puma if the man is older and toygirls if they have younger women,well all is equal now I say so other women,please adopt my sayings then men will know what its like then.Why is it also women say toyboys and cougar stop now as your calling your own sex bad.Stick up for one another like men do how about it.Why should men always get away with everything no name calling etc wheras just by being a woman seems to be a crime.

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davie852 - 25 Aug, 2012 - 08:15AM

Hi Sara

I am the Lucky guy that Lydia2011 wrote too and I have never been so happy either, we both hope it last's as long as possible, we are very happy that we were " Online at the same time "
I had said aged 40 -65 on my profile, she was younger but looking for a Mature man, she seemed genuine, so we meet and instant sparks, WOW,
Sara you are a clever Woman and we both thank you for something special, hope others can get this as well..It's what we all wish for when we join I.E.
Davie852

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Anonymous User - 24 Aug, 2012 - 11:13AM

We all have our preferences but surely, as we get older and wiser about life, we have learned that when we look in the mirror and see an older version (or worse, our mother / father) there is still the 20 year old behind the wrinkles but with the added advantage of more patience, consideration and confidence about who we are and what we want. If an IE member asks me about age, hair colour or size of my thighs, I tend to just delete - I suggest you do the same... I want someone who wants a relationship full of passion, respect and exploration... not an ornament!

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relight my fire - 24 Aug, 2012 - 01:01AM

way when a older guy is with a younger lady no one looks twice. yet if a older lady is with a younger guy its like your about to turn the world upside down ...........funny yes i no.........

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leggy1 - 21 Aug, 2012 - 08:32PM

Will the younger ones please have some respect for their elders and leave the mature men to us over 50s?

Also, could the petite ladies please settle for someone just a couple of inches taller? At 5ft 9 I'd like to look my man in the eye (or neck preferably).

Oh hell, I'm just going to have to change tack and go for a short toy boy! Those mature ones have their advantages but the reading glasses over the menu, the shaky hands and the reliable little blue pills remind me of MY age too.

Love and peace everyone.

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skaz - 21 Aug, 2012 - 04:19PM

I am a more mature man and so many people, those I know and those I dont, are constantly telling me how young I look ? I obviously find the comments very complimentary, but I do find that a lot of ladies tend to shy away because they look at the number not the person ??? its not what you but who you are isnt it ??? so I say to Lydia2011 well done for looking beyond the age barrier and I hope you remain happy and contented in your relationship for a long and loving time, I hope I can find someone like you ??? skaz

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Anonymous User - 21 Aug, 2012 - 02:24PM

A fantastic example of why one should not have narrow pre conceived prejudices about age differences. Maybe similar attitudes should prevail about about height and body type preferences too. Lots of ladies overlook guys of average height it seems, and lots of guys overlook the more curvaceous ladies too.

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