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Advice for my first affair

I’m looking to have an affair to experiment with sex.
I love my husband and we definitely “make love” when we have sex but he’s never been the experimental type. I’m getting on in my age and want to see what else is out there and do something for me. I feel like it’s my last chance. I’ve come to illicitencounters but not sure where to go from here. Does anyone have any advice for me? What should I be looking for and what should I try first?

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Spicy Asian - 15 Apr, 2024 - 09:06PM

I'm the same - I love my husband but sex with him is very boring. I'm much more open minded than him and this is a great place to explore all that

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Jasmine19 - 09 Apr, 2024 - 09:01AM

If you're still sexual with your husband before you have an affair try suggesting to spice things up with your husband. He may feel the same but worried to ask for things.

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SunnyDaze743 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 11:36PM

When I met my girlfriend / wife, we just went for it. Did it every which way. Chocolate mousse and strawberries were a prop.

Just say you want to do the Kama Sutra with someone. They’ll know what you mean.


1661271 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:18PM

Go for a meeting don’t over think things and perhaps think about what you have been missing with no repercussions


1651038 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 09:16PM

Perhaps best to take things gradually and see if you can still get your knees behind your ears ?

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Oldboy 74 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 01:11PM

If you have a partner with whom you make love with and truly love you will find sex, no matter how exciting, will never be as satisfying. But I know how you feel. If you manage to get your partner to experiment with new things, it may take time and patience, you will receive far, far more satisfaction and without the guilt.


Maasai77 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 11:35AM

Just have fun and stop overthinking I meet someone on this site and now I go to swinging clubs even though I don’t play I think it’s the best thing I did and I don’t judge anybody anymore… each to there own and I’m intending to have fun until I drop dead someday… live my dear … love yourself … you come first xxx

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Life is a beach - 29 Mar, 2024 - 11:25PM

You make love with your husband, yet you are looking here other sex experiences...I guess there is something more than you said missing for you.
Just be careful, I am not one to judge.
Chat to people, first meeting in public place, then you can both decide where yo go on your second date 😉
Good luck!


rony502 - 28 Mar, 2024 - 12:34PM

Try and be honest and don't be shy. When u r in a marriage sometimes u r hesitent to explore,but on this forum u can choose to be uninhabited without the fear of being judged.

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Rapide1 - 27 Mar, 2024 - 12:23PM

Your husband is a lucky man! I would love to have someone who wants to explore sexually before it is too late!

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