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laugar164 - 04 Apr, 2024 - 10:11AM

No secret just be yourself and hopefully you will connect with a lovely person looking for the same as you
Don't try to hard you will come across desperate

Paula99 - 04 Apr, 2024 - 05:24AM

Lejohn0508..

If you are that anxious about it …do you think it’s the right thing for you ?
Take your time chat with people …see how the land lies 😊

1659438 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 04:28PM

I’m new to this never done anything like this before- I’m incredibly anxious about it.

Life is a beach - 16 Mar, 2024 - 10:15PM

As many of you have said, send a message that seems personal, not random.
Don't send any pictures of your nob before building a relationship 😅.
Don't be arrogant, show interest in the potential person you are contacting.
I know it's more difficult for the men. I would say, don't give up.
My IE was himself when we started chatting, his personality won me over before I saw any photos. Bonus, once I saw his picture, I felt attracted to him.when we first met, it was fireworks!
I have seen some of your posts. Some people in this site are very selfish. Don't let them get you down. You are much better than they are. There is someone out there that will be good for you.
Be yourself, don't post any photos that are 10 years old or where you look different than in real life. You may eventually them, only for them to be disappointed and for you to loose them.
Always be yourself and don't let anyone make you feel down. We are all on this site to make life that bit brighter.

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MissBrandy - 16 Mar, 2024 - 01:15AM

I like to read a message that clearly indicates a lovely submissive man has actually read my profile. Nothing worse than a dom or a switch trying to sneak into my inbox!
If someone is too far out of my age range or I read their profile and their ideal partner doesn't match me, then I won't respond

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Heaven77 - 16 Mar, 2024 - 12:25AM

Some ladies like a detailed, longer, essay type of response and some a shorter, more concise first communication. Most like something in between but the important factor is that your words should be personal to that particular lady rather than a cut and paste generic reply.

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rarity23 - 15 Mar, 2024 - 01:27PM

From a male point of view, just be yourself, send an intro based on something in a lady's profile.
There's always someone out there on your wavelength, that will reply.
Don't rush either, a six week membership is plenty of time to find someone, even for the likes of me over 50 !!
This site does work, stick with it, and good luck

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1649649 - 15 Mar, 2024 - 12:16PM

There is no secret. The birds and the bees, the lions and the meerkats do not question what they are and how they should be. They exist and function accordingly.

Show up. Be yourself. Know what you want and you'll find 'her' eventually. You are someone's type.

Makooo - 15 Mar, 2024 - 12:10PM

Am new here am still learning how to use this platform. Looking forward meeting a sweet lady. Am not here for any serious relationship just friends and fun.

Enigma.. - 15 Mar, 2024 - 07:22AM

Personally I prefer a short(ish) message and not an essay.
If someone mentions something, taken from my profile, that catches my interest because it shows me they have actually read my profile.

Turn offs…
“Hi! How you doing?” (So Joey out of friends 🙄🥱) or similar short messages eg… Hi!, Hello etc… 🙄🥱
Messaging asking for my photo password in the first message 👋🏻
Messaging straight away with the sex chat eg…” what’s your favourite position?” 👋🏻. “I would love to get between your thighs”!! 🥱👋🏻 🚫.
Messaging with no punctuation, poor grammar and lots of emojis 🙄🥱🤷🏼‍♀️👋🏻

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