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Amandi1712 - 16 Apr, 2024 - 09:16PM

It depends in why you are together is for pure sex, is it for connection, is it to build a longer term thing.

The key is to not presume anything and go with the flow, communicate and build up trust. Just enjoy their company and if you connect then things will happen at their own pace. Key is not to push it, and take your time.

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midlife-pleasures - 14 Apr, 2024 - 12:35PM

Is there one fixed answer to this? I doubt it. One of the joys of meeting someone new can be the unpredictability, the anticipation of what may or may not happen.

Sometimes you may have been chatting for ages, building up the tension and you both know things will happen within minutes of meeting. Other times you may spend a few dates getting to know that person.

It’s all valid, and all fun…

Mrlover1230000 - 12 Apr, 2024 - 10:06PM

Depends on how you both flirted before the meeting up? Like I’ve casually gone to a meet with a girl before and it wasn’t flirtatious at all and once we started speaking we starting throwing a few cheeky comments here and there and one thing led to another we both made a comment on how good of a kisser we were, then we both said show me…

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1661271 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:12PM

Find out over a nice relaxing meal and see if the sparks fly
A nice little kiss would be a good sign unless it’s a peck on the cheek

Lainsborough - 05 Apr, 2024 - 12:39PM

Oh dear Oh dear. I prefer to judge all from my early-era Edwardian perspectives. One must not expect too much on a first date. Bringing condoms, for instance, is presumptive - but also safe. I went on a second date from here - and we both telegraphed our early Edwardian proclivities over drinks - before she took me to her room and shagged the life out of me. She brought the protection - I brought the awkwardness! Memories were had all around xx

Naughty&Spice - 05 Apr, 2024 - 12:25PM

As soon as both parties are ready for it . Be it within minutes of meeting or a longer slow burn . Who really cares apart from the two people it concerns . As long as consensual it’s no one else’s business and who gives a damn about what is the right thing and socially acceptable amount of time . We are all here for the same reason

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Paula99 - 05 Apr, 2024 - 11:02AM

Mipaulac…

You always make it sound so bloody sordid….!

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mipaulac - 05 Apr, 2024 - 01:24AM

It's down to how well you've got to know each other platonically and sexually before hand.
If the mutual reality exceeds expections kissing, leads to bj's, wet knickers and holes being fcuked before you find a bed !! 😅😅
In other tense senarios the trip to the loo becomes the door out !!

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WanderlustL - 04 Apr, 2024 - 10:54PM

So true

ChocolateAubergine - 04 Apr, 2024 - 12:56PM

No single answer to this. You miight meet for an innocent coffee and end up having sex in the back of a car or escaping to a local hotel for an evening of sex or you may not have sex for a couple of dates and then end up going away together for a full weekend of pent up raw passion.

Either way you should make an effort and be prepared in case it does become sexual. Every situation is different, just be respectful and enjoy your time however it pans out.

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