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Fun Hunky Gent - 05 Apr, 2024 - 07:01PM

I hope it becomes easier. I find it difficult to get my messages to stand out and I try all types of different techniques, from one liners to a full detailed personalised hello based on what has been written in their profile to buy no avail!

I did feel like I was clicking with someone but then after sharing pictures I got blocked. Either she didn't like my perfectly formed smile, she knew me or just didn't fancy me which is fine... But it's just an example of the type of radio silence I can expect and experience!

I remain hopefully though with the process!

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MMCM69 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 10:35AM

I think you learn along the way, to find the person is difficult, to find someone needs time and patience to link the missing part of the lives we have, sometimes not of our choosing but perhaps a little selfish trying to find a little happiness and fun

Secret Mission 2024 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 01:06AM

To state the obvious, the older one becomes, the less interest in your profile and you as a person.

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catnip86 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 11:56PM

I've been on here for about a month, and I've learned a *lot*. It does become easier to decide what you're looking for, and that should help you actually get somewhere. After that, well, practise makes perfect :)

Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 03:14PM

It’s nice to see a post from a different perspective and it’s clear even though you are single you are emotionally mature …however I am not sure about himself offloading all his marital drama on you on a regular basis ..I agree that some support is necessary but you have enough of your own to contend with and just being a continual ‘ support network’ would give me the ‘ick’
I have said this before in another post …women don’t want to listen to their affairs moaning about their wives and the general problems at home ..this is about the ‘escape’ and having fun …😉

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Secret Mission 2024 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 12:52PM

Been here for some time, so long in fact that it seems that I am perceived of the cardigan and slippers brigade, plus I have soup spillage marks on my shirts. No, it's more difficult and edgy nowadays with too many incorrect perceptions.

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Maasai77 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 11:24AM

I have had a long affair from this site and meet nice people nothing went wrong for me because I was patient enough until I meet the right person,by the way he is married and is still married I am single and has never stepped out of my boundaries I only listen about his frustration at home and never say anything negative but help him when I can

Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 08:50AM

There is a story on Apple News about extra marital affairs and terms used like ‘cushioning ‘ or ‘backburnering’

It makes good reading ….🐣🐣🐣🐰🐰🐰

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Enigmatic Lady - 29 Mar, 2024 - 06:49AM

I had a very interesting conversation yesterday with a friend of mine who is also a female member on the site. We were discussing the lack of new male members in the areas we are actively looking at.
I’ve only been on the site for a few weeks and was asking her advice on a few matters. Which led to a conversation about male members and, although we don’t live in the same areas, it’s the same males who are messaging both myself and my friend.
Which led to the question what if I was to become involved with a male and I found out he had been messaging my friend? Or she had arranged to me with him too? Or vice versa.
Should we both meet up with him, separately, and then get together for a coffee to compare notes lol 😝.

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ayefondkiss - 28 Mar, 2024 - 09:26PM

I’m not sure. I have met a couple of lovely people from here, which is why I came back and I’m hoping that it’ll be a case of third time lucky to meet someone who’s just as lovely! here’s hoping, right? :)

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