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Needle in a Haystack

It's my first time trying anything like this and having looked at a lot of ladies profiles I'm beginning to think that I'm a niche bloke.
Not being 6feet tall, gym going or smart dressing seems to put me in the "get in the sea" category with many.
Have any other "niche" blokes had success finding ladies who take them as they are?

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Peaches1 - 17 May, 2024 - 08:42PM

I was on here a few years ago and it was soo much better. Met lots of willing people for a drink. I dont know what it is but people dont seem to follow a
meet through these days. I'm not sure since post covid lots of people are working from home and dont have the same opportunities to leave the house or have just got into that rut of chatting. Please tell me I'm wrong!

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1643275 - 17 May, 2024 - 08:18PM

Despite encouraging messages from Enigma and Paula99 about my profile.......still no luck whatsoever 😥.


1665613 - 17 May, 2024 - 04:10PM

Hi how can I get noticed on hear really looking for someone but can’t seem to get reply s
So looking for affair and class my self as good looking guy
Paul x

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Old Sapper - 12 May, 2024 - 12:03PM

aggyakacja - 06 May, 2024
"Generally I'm little bit overweight, big ass and small breasts"

Sounds ok to me!
Plenty to get hold of and explore.


1643275 - 12 May, 2024 - 11:52AM

Tykeman61

Getting noticed at the age of 60+ is really difficult here, even if you are as fit as say Clooney who is also 60+. So making a massive effort with a profile and a generous amount of luck might bring success.


Tykeman1961 - 12 May, 2024 - 10:38AM

So I considering dipping my toe in the IE community, but not sure if it works, especially for a 60+ guy looking for someone of a similar age. Any advice greatly received


Scousejack - 09 May, 2024 - 12:15AM

The picture on the profile does not look like the real thing when you go off site. So it’s a put off,

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TRGCEO - 07 May, 2024 - 09:12PM

The game is vastly different depending on your sex too. For men, yes it's a lot more difficult if you're not the ideal guy but play to your strengths.

For women its not a case of having difficulty finding men, its finding the right guy. They'll be swamped with messages from all sorts of people and I'm guessing it can be exhausting.

Tbf my only experience here is with one woman who friendzoned me (not that i mind, always good to make new friends!) So not the best judge lol

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ExoticOrchid - 06 May, 2024 - 10:02PM

P99 - 09:02PM

Possibly but then those "ladies" expect/demand the men give their passwords.

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Paula99 - 06 May, 2024 - 09:02PM

There are many reasons why women don’t want to swap their pws at the onset of the conversation…
Discretion is at the top of the list …and let’s face it we all have ‘smart phones’ that make tea and chat with God…so we are relying on our pictures not being ‘screen shot ‘…
Some of the ladies on here are in professions that need to be hidden away
So have some respect for those that are not willing to negotiate their pws straight away …if she is genuine then you will get your reward..😁

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