How to suppress the excitement?
I've met someone and we're a great match. We've been sneaking off to see each other and getting a buzz from the adrenaline. My question is, how do you suppress the excitement when you're at home? I get butterflies just from a text message and I'm walking around like a grinning idiot half the time. How do you tone down the glow up?
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Marlen - 11 Apr, 2024 - 06:02PM
As regards the OP, if you can't mask the excitement with feigned indifference, like a normal day, you will get caught sooner rather than later. Compartmentalise. Like when you're intimate with your legal partner and thinking about something else....
As regards the fancy underwear, tough call if you don't wear at home......Still you can always go bold and say you bought it to feel empowered. Besides, what's the chance of a 'male' partner rooting through the laundry bin to check your smalls? If they're that suspicious you've bigger problems.
Men aren't so lucky... lipstick stains,on your boxers etc. are a tad difficult to explain away!😁
Prof Sarah Beauchamp - 11 Apr, 2024 - 03:22PM
Obviously no one here knows how to play poker.
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GrahamFitz - 11 Apr, 2024 - 02:03PM
Am I the only one who immediately saw Austin Powers frantically repeating, "Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day! "?
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NinaOakley - 11 Apr, 2024 - 01:32PM
Becky, tragically I’m never home alone! If my IE wants sexy undies he might have to provide a by-hand laundry service! I will try and slowly up the pretty knickers, though!
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Beckysharp - 11 Apr, 2024 - 12:00PM
Nina- I only wear sexy undies if I know I can wash/dry when home alone. Otherwise I have ‘nicer’ undies that I wear every day but also for meets
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MagicMouse321 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 09:52AM
It’s actually a feeling you want to maintain. Too much of each other and it becomes ordinary, keep it light and sexy and it’s extraordinary ;-)
Cold shower, and “keep it cool Rodders, keep it cool.”
NinaOakley - 11 Apr, 2024 - 09:13AM
Can I add a question? I’m in a better position than most for staying hidden, but the behaviour change my other half will notice is nice underwear cropping up on the washing line after 20 years of M and S cotton knickers! Anyone got any tips for keeping the pretty smalls clean, but hidden?!
Bumbercatch77 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 09:07AM
II have always found hat there is enough hardship and misery in real life to take the edge off any joy
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TakingOrders - 11 Apr, 2024 - 08:52AM
DO some chores. Washing up etc - or will that be an even bigger give away if you're a fella?
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