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Help - my IE is shy!

Finally met my IE after months of online messaging - we have an electric connection and I find him crazy attractive - but I found he is very shy in person…how do I bring him out of his shell? 

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MagicMouse321 - 10 Apr, 2024 - 04:16PM

Get him comfortable (socially), favourite place, favourite time of day, etc

Couple of drinks?

Maybe he’s worried or anxious?

Talk him though it “what if it all works out?”, “what if we have a great time and everything’s fine?”

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NinaOakley - 10 Apr, 2024 - 10:35AM

That’s going to depend on how Not Shy and patient you are! Are you up to stripping him and tying him to a chair while you caress him and ask him about what he wants/ how he feels about the things you want?
Any hesitation or censure of his responses you replace your warm, sensual hand with a (melting, you don’t want to take any skin off!) ice cube.

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1575033 - 11 Mar, 2024 - 08:55PM

Find someone else.

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1653827 - 05 Mar, 2024 - 05:53PM

Get him a pet..something small and cute.. but not a hamster, especially a giggly one…annoying as fuck they are.

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Emerold - 29 Feb, 2024 - 09:21PM

Give him time but don’t wait ages. If he likes you, he’ll feel comfortable


giggly hamster - 28 Feb, 2024 - 02:13PM

Paula, you may be shocked to discover I'm more reserved than a ticket for a front row seat at a stones final tribute tour. Jast saying like.. ahem.. .


Paula99 - 28 Feb, 2024 - 01:55PM

There are 2 kinds of shy ☺️

The first is ‘reserved’ which sometimes means he’s a tiger in bed …

The second …you’re wasting your time ..the reality is the sex will be as dull as dishwater..🙄

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Paula99 - 28 Feb, 2024 - 01:46PM

Giggly H …

You kill me sometimes 😂😂😂😂

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giggly hamster - 28 Feb, 2024 - 01:42PM

Get him in the hotel room and then walk out of the bathroom dressed in full domina latex and tell him you're going to peg him with a rolling pin whoilst wearing those extra thick pink marigolds with the fingers that are ribbed for extra pleasure.

If he reacts by looking at you and the only thing he can say is "meep" then my darling, if your attraction is as strong as you say, accept that his syness is here to stay and buy a lovely studded dog collar and a cueball gag. You dear heart are going to have to accept that you mustn't stop even if he cries.

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catnip86 - 25 Feb, 2024 - 05:43PM

@paula You're doing it again 🤣

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